I was at the grocery store and a picture caught my eye. “That’s ani!” I thought. And it was, right on the cover of…Mothering magazine? Well, I picked it up to read the interview and felt like a poseur while I was checking out!
Looks like it is a pretty good magazine. I saw adverts for happy heiney’s, which I am familiar with after researching and helping get a friend into cloth diapering. I saw an anti-advert by adbusters, which was pretty cool. I saw some recipes that look pretty good. I’m going to have to make copies of those.
But the magazine itself, I’m giving away to someone who is a mother and interested in it! I read the ani article, and I thought it was pretty cool, but the rest of the magazine will go to waste (other than the recipes), so I want to get it in the hands of someone who is interested. It is the may-june 2008 issue. I’ll pay postage, just leave me a comment and I’ll email you for your address.
And while I’m at it – giving away things that have to do with being a parent – I have a book called “My mother wears combat boots: a parenting guide for the rest of us.” I am a “friend of AK press” which means they send me books every month, whatever is recently published. And while this book really does look interesting, it is never going to be relevant to me, and so I know I won’t end up reading it! So, it too is being offered free to a good home. Here’s AK Press’ blurb about it:
Jessica Mills is a touring musician, artist, activist, writer, teacher, and mother of two. Disappointed by run-of-the-mill parenting books that didn’t speak to her experience, she set out to write a book tackling the issues faced by a new generation of moms and dads. The result is a parenting guide like no other. Written with humor, extensive research, and much trial and error, My Mother Wears Combat Boots delivers sound advice for parents of all stripes. Amid stories of bringing kids (and grandparents) to women’s rights demonstrations, taking baby on tour with her band, and organizing cooperative childcare, Jessica gives detailed nuts-and-bolts information about weaning, cloth vs. disposable diapers, the psychological effects of co-sleeping, and even how to get free infant gear. This book provides a clever, hip, and entertaining mix of advice, anecdotes, political analysis, and factual sidebars that will help parents as they navigate the first years of their child’s life.
May 29, 2008 at 9:44 pm
Ani looks absolutely gorgeous on that cover. Thank you for blogging about this magazine. It looks so interesting!
May 29, 2008 at 10:08 pm
I’m pretty impressed with it, and I’m not a mother! I’m glad it pointed you to an interesting new resource as well! Were you interested in having me mail out the hard-copy?
May 30, 2008 at 8:50 am
You would give the magazine to me? That makes me cry, you are so nice. Yes, I do want it, please.
May 30, 2008 at 11:16 am
Wow, that’s cool! I didn’t even know she had a child. Frankly, I was a bit confused when she got married as I know she always identified herself as bisexual. I figured anyone who’s bi wouldn’t want to be tied down to either gender.
I’ll have to check it out on my next trip to B&N.
June 1, 2008 at 11:14 am
FW – of course I would! I’ll get it in the mail monday. Would have been Friday if I was more organized! lol.
Sandra – She’s divorced now, and I believe she’s not married to petah’s dad. I could be wrong, but she refers to him as her partner, and I don’t recall hearing about a 2nd marriage. I don’t know a lot about her views on marriage, in general. I was somewhat surprised by her marriage, but not because of her sexuality. It just seemed to institutional to fit in with many of her views, but then again, I’ve never heard her say anything regarding marriage, so that was an assumption of mine.
With regards to bisexuality, it means only that she’s attracted to people of both sexes. It doesn’t say anything about her views on marriage, or even her views on monogamy. Ani does seem to practice monogamy, at least I’ve never heard anything to the contrary. But while there are spectrums in terms of sexuality from straight to gay, with bisexuality, transsexuality, and asexuality somewhere in between (though I really can’t think of it as a straight line to contain all the variations!), it is independent of the *gamy spectrum, which goes from monogamy to polygamy and likely has many variations that I’ve never even thought of.
In other words, you can be straight and polygamous just as you can be gay or bi or trans and monogamous. Your sexuality isn’t really an indicator of your views on monogamy versus polygamy.