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Blogging against abuse, a blog for hope

This is a harder post to write than I anticipated. I do a lot of work fighting various forms of abuse (mostly through animal rights and environmental activism), I read a lot, and I face up to a lot of difficult realities. To choose a focus when talking about abuse is difficult. They all bleed together for me.

So that is what I’m going to talk about. It is easy to look at the obvious abuses and point our fingers, and work to stop individual events from happening. Well, easy is relative. What I mean is it is easy to recognize these, and the path is relatively clear in stopping it. The neighbor’s child is being abused? There are authority figures to contact, there are things you can do to try to protect that child.

But what about the overall issue of child abuse? Why does it happen? Not just child abuse, but animal abuse as well. And while we’re at it, why is this world so violent? And why do we consciously turn a blind eye to it (yes, it is difficult and it is unpleasant to think about, but is that really a good excuse?), and why do we resist making changes in our own lives that would begin to limit, for example, the environmental abuse we are complicit in and perpetuate?

I believe there is a connection, a thread that runs through all of these forms of abuse. (And yes, I do think exploitation is a form of abuse.)

There is a garbage patch in our oceans, and there are manure lagoons on our land. The most toxic industries and waste sites are located in the poorest areas of the country, and of the world. The U.S.A. is a giant consumer of the earth’s resources, and that means that we are also a giant producer of refuse. We ship much of it down to the global south, which allows us to ignore the consequences of the problem. Out of sight, out of mind.

This prevents the world’s largest consumer of resources and producer of refuse from looking seriously at solutions to the problem. Imagine, for those of you who live in the land of consumerism, if you had to deal with your own trash in your own way, and it had to be dealt with on your property. I think we’d all take a hard look at our behavior, our consumption. And maybe, just to start, we’d grow food not lawns.

In Bolivia, the nation’s poor had to fight what is now known as a resource war for access to their own water after their government (due to pressure by the IMF) sold the water rights out from under them to an international company. The actions of this company, and those who supported it, caused the deaths of many people. Many poor people. Why don’t we call it murder? It is not ethical, it is not moral, so why aren’t we protesting? This, naturally, is one snapshot of the fight for basic survival that people are in all over the earth. Please don’t buy bottled water. It is killing people in Bolivia and India and may other places, and it is also killing the albatross, whose starve to death with stomachs full to bursting from plastic bottle caps.

The earth itself is taking a beating. The human population continues to grow, and the earth’s resources are used with little to no thought for sustainability. The earth can not sustain the current rate of resource usage. It is obvious and simple math to figure this out. So why aren’t we protesting? Why aren’t we changing?

One of the reasons I think all of these abuses and exploitations are tied together, and need to be fought as if they are one, is that if you follow the issues back far enough, you’ll see something interesting. We abuse and exploit those who we have determined are different, and in saying they are different, we usually mean they are lesser than we are. We also only exploit and abuse those who have less actual power than we do.

This may seem simplistic, and it doesn’t fully get at the psychosis in the people in our society, as individuals. However, it gets at the root cause.

When we are born, we are not sexist, we are not racist, and we are not even likely to abuse or exploit other species. We have all witnessed the child’s wonder and awe at nature’s everyday miracles. A child committing animal abuse is seen as a future psychopath and/or sociopath. So what happens? How do we go from the innocent child to being sexist and racist and turning a blind eye to a variety of abuses in society and in our community?

It starts when we’re taught that some are okay to hurt, and others aren’t. The distinctions are arbitrary. Explain to a small child exactly why dogs are pets and pigs are food. They are both affectionate, and pigs have been judged to be smarter than dogs. Explain to a small child why it is okay that some people are not allowed to sit on a public bench in a public park, while others are. Explain to a small child why it is okay for a wealthy corporation to tell people that they deserve to die for lack of potable water for the heinous crime of having been born into an economically repressed family.

These lines we draw, they don’t make sense. But children learn them, and they use them. They make fun of their classmates who are “different.” We are taught that different is wrong, even though there is no such thing as normal. Abused children are more likely to abuse animals, and more likely to grow up to abuse both animals and children. And anyone else they have power over.

Governments and corporations abuse and exploit those who have less power. Highways cut through poor rather than powerful neighborhoods, increasing poverty. Health care is distinctly lesser in quality in poor neighborhoods, and the school systems suffer as well. Grocery stores are scarce in poor communities, which impacts the health and the scholastic achievements in these same neighborhoods that are already at a disadvantage.

I could go on. I could look at the specifics, or I could look at the bigger picture, and I could continue to find more and more connections. The problems are many, as are the solutions. We only have so much time to act before some things will pass us by and become more devastating than we seem willing to imagine.

Despite everything, I manage to retain some hope, in part because of grassroots community oriented action, such as BlogCatalog’s action that spurred this post for me. Thanks to Ruby for alerting me to this. It is important. We can make changes, in our own lives, and in the lives of those around us. Start small. Think big.

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~ by Deb on September 26, 2007.

13 Responses to “Blogging against abuse, a blog for hope”

  1. Once again I am moved to tears by what you’ve written. It’s late here for me now too since I was up writing my post as well but - You have done a fine job here - great, excellent, beautiful, well thought out and I can see how hard it was to write it. Same here. I want to post more but I have to check out here very soon. I want to say more but have run out of time.

    Thank you Deb. I knew you were going to do a fantastic job with this since it’s so close to your heart.

    Much love, peace.

    ~ RS ~

  2. (((( Deb )))) Thank you for putting such raw and complicated feelings and issues to words! Your post is a profound collection. The questions, answers, and actions come through with so much emotion! Thanks for moving us all to make changes in our own lives and attitudes before it’s too late!

  3. Thanks Ruby and Grace! You both did fantastic jobs as well!

  4. Deb, you touched on so many important points. I like, “We are taught that different is wrong, even though there is no such thing as normal.” I feel that way everyday when my daughter frets about what others think about her and I give her the same talk nearly once a week….. ugh.

    This whole post is thought provoking, makes me question lots of issues. You did a wonderful job!

  5. Bella, you sound like a wonderful mom. Just keep telling her. She might not get it now, but she’ll be so much stronger when she starts to understand what you meant later. :)

    Thanks for reading, and for the comment!

  6. The water situation in Bolivia has become quite dire. As you know I’ve spent some time there, I got to witness the deterioration of this country over a 10 year period. I hope Morales can do what he was elected to do, but the divides in that country are so deep and complicated it will be a miracle to witness a significant change in our lifetimes.

    Good post, Deb.

  7. I think Morales is already making a change, but it is much harder and much slower than he (or the people who are in such desperate need) wanted or expected. Still, he came from them, he can actually understand it, and he’s fighting against the corruption as best he can, from what I’ve heard. We’ll see. They have more of a chance, now that they’re out from under the IMF, anyway! But yeah, will it be significant change in our lifetime? Hard to say, as much as we can hope.

  8. I read this post quickly in an sleep deprived state and it was powerful. But I just took the time to reread it and I have to say that you are amazing. Bringing in so many issues into one concise post. We all get hung up on “our” issues and forget about other’s issues and the abuses happening around the world.
    Thanks for the reminder that the world is a big fucked up place and “we” all need to fix it.

  9. Thanks. It has been interesting, as I read more and more, things are sort of compressing down for me. Sometimes it makes me feel scattered and ineffectual, but I think that is temporary, that I’ll be stronger in the end for knowing a really wide range of issues, though I’ll continue to focus on just one.

    But yes, the world IS a big fucked up place, but there are always things we can do. It has to start with us.

  10. I was in the same sort of state that Rich described in the above comment when I read this the first time and I’ve just re-read it having had a bit of time to rest and take things in slowly. I’ve re-read this a couple of times but today took the time to check out the links in your post as well and really concentrate on it.

    I have much admiration for you Deb. You care and are active on so many levels on the issues that are so important to life - not just human life but all life. We are all so inter-connected that I can see how, both in your life, mine and many others we cannot just consider what affects one without considering how things affect us - as a whole - a whole people, animals and our earth, air, and water in our entirities. (I know I spelled that wrong but I’m sort of hurrying.)

    I’m so glad you approached this issue the way you have by not just looking at the surface of the issues but in delving into the whys and how these issues come to be in the first place. Perhaps if we start to understand the whys then we might be able to begin to approach what sorts of projects or whatever it is we need to in order to bring about change. One of the things you said kinda stuck out to me and reminded me of a story in my own life. You said:
    “Imagine, for those of you who live in the land of consumerism, if you had to deal with your own trash in your own way, and it had to be dealt with on your property. I think we’d all take a hard look at our behavior, our consumption.”
    What a great point you’ve made my friend. I am sure it would just have to open people’s eyes and ideas would start flowing beyond what newest toys we are going to buy or what party we are going to attend…
    I was reminded of someone in our community when I was young who was considered pretty liberal but he lived in a rather upscale neighborhood. When he tore up his front yard and started planting vegetables and herbs it was seen as unseemly and it was even written up in the newspaper. It was a fairly large city (Rochester, NY) and for it to be in the paper was rather a big deal. What the hook for the story was was that the neighborhood was pressuring him to get rid of the garden in the front yard and to plant a real “lawn” so the house would “fit in”. They even took him to court but he won.

    People like that making an issue like that so important - instead of considering their own part really shows, even now, how damn little people think of their own environments and shows where their priortities lie.

    Anyway, I just wanted to thank you, like Rich has, for bringing so many issues together into such a precise and coherant post that covered so much territory and really addressed more than just the problems that are plaguing us and our planet.

    Thank you Deb. I appreciate what you do very much and I am so happy and honored to know people like you. Thank you for being part of my life today.

    Peace and action.
    ~ RS ~

  11. Wow, Ruby, thanks so much!

    That interconnectedness is something that we, as a society, have forgotten and turned away from. It is really disturbing when you think about how badly we’re messing up the earth. We are destroying it. And in destroying it, we are destroying ourselves. Yet the vast majority of people don’t want to hear it, don’t want to think about it, and certainly don’t want to change. Can we be ANY more self-destructive? I suppose we could lobby to start a nuclear war immediately, and that would be more self-destructive, but so far, we’ve retained at least some small amount of sanity there, though it has been a close thing.

    Anyway, don’t get me started, obviously! I think that if people make an effort to relearn and recognize the interconnectedness, they’ll start to see that doing the right thing for the environment is doing the right thing for the animals and themselves and their kids. Doing the right thing for themselves IS doing the right thing for the environment and animals. I just can’t separate these things out anymore, they are so tied into each other.

    I’m not surprised that the guy in Rochester got hassled. It is sad, but at least he won the issue in the courts. I’m not sure that I’d have expected that! Guerilla gardeners are often hassled to a great extent by law enforcement and other people. Like it is a scary dangerous thing, growing tomatoes! If you pick up Food Not Lawns (the book), you’ll see some of that talked about. Everything seems so twisted and backwards to me, the negative reactions to people growing food, and positive reactions to behemoth hummers? Too weird!

    Thanks for the comment, Ruby, it was really nice to read. :)

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  13. this is the second post I’ve read on “blogging against abuse”, I’m very impressed. Great articles for a very good cause!

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